Sunday, 21 September 2014

感情与人生

虽然说,爱情只是我们人生的一部分。但我们何不常常因为感情的创伤而变得颓废,变得无奈,变得脆弱。

当爱的时候,两人的眼里只有对方,不管遇到什么事都会想一起承担,一起去克服。
当不爱的时候,再小的事都会摧毁两然人的一切。

当爱的时候,两人的世界是甜蜜的。是快乐的。
当不爱的时候,我们的心是痛的,是难过的,是悲的

爱情这东西,可遇而不可求。有人明白。也有人不明白。
爱是件那么简单的是,但恋爱的人往往都把他复杂化。
爱一个人是要爱他的一切。
爱一个人是接受他的一切。
爱一个人并不是要他改变一切。

女人一旦恋爱了都会变笨
情绪会因为他的的情绪改变。

Friday, 19 September 2014

People dont change, its just the mask they are wearing is falling off

Its hard to tell myself how time flies. Its almost a year since the last incident happen.

Everyone sees through things in a different way.And some maybe easier and happier but some not.

I have been going around the circle for the past 7 months of my life. sticking together, breaking apart and sticking back together and breaking apart. Its never been easy for me.

Knowing a person its hard, but knowing a person who build a wall is even harder. I know myself who has been building walls for the past 10years, and the wall was brought down by someone I thought would love me forever. I vows and make promise to love this person till I die. And he did the same. But never did I realise that when things happen, instead of solving it and communicate about it, he chose to leave my life and escape as far away as possible. And this is how he sees things. Neither do I realise that the vows and promises I made to this man is not worth it.

I have my chance again to build the wall. This time, the wall will be so concrete that no one can ever bring it down and including myself. I was wrong. I can still feel my heart beat. I could still feel my breathe, I could still feel the pain. I knew this is going to happen again and I have to make it stop. I am tired defending myself. The easier way to escape which I learnt from him is RUN. I need to run away from the situation. I need to tell myself to avoid the situation. I need to clear away from it as soon as possible before I was hurt again.

Maybe the people I know did not change. Its just that the mask that they are wearing is falling apart?