what If.....

How many time do we have the "what if.." coming from our head?

What if we.... What if .... What if .....

The what if is always there, but whenever its there, it makes no regret to know if only we do this and that. But what if we really do it? Will the end result be the same?

Sometime we always regret things we didnt do, thing we didnt tried and things we didnt said, but even if we do, we tried and we say, will it makes a big different? If it does, it will be with another what if when another things happen.

It has happen to me so much that I am tired of thinking what if. Compiling of what I have done. I have believe I have done enough. Be it on my relationship, be it on my marriage. I have done enough because I did what I can and never give up. If one party is willing to give up what he had or have done, there is nothing much we can do with what if.

Seeing is believing and doing is convincing.

We have done our part for making a life a wonderful one. I have done my part to make someone else's life a good one. I may not have been good enough, and I may have been much more better than I supposed to be, but every little thing need time and patient to gain entry. It does not happen overnight for some reason. We hate something, we dislike something and we cannot accept certain things. But by loving someone is to give, like and accept. Without it, it means nothing.

If we know things is going to happen, will we behave the same way we behave? Will we say the same thing we said? or do the same thing we did? Unfortunately, we cannot predict what is it that is going to happen. We cannot see what the future lies, but we can accept what it is going to happen and accept the present that given us the future. If we cannot accept the present than there is not going to be a future. Nothing will be good, no one will be perfect.

Everyone has their own behavior, culture and character, being together doesnt mean controlling and pleasing anyone. But accepting is the one that makes 2 different person stay together.

I am not a good person, not a good daughter, not a good girlfriend and not a good wife. The only thing I can do is accepting the person who I believe to be with me. having only the person in my heart and going thru all the thick and thin as well as keeping my promises.

Life is never easy when 2 different person get along together, it will be more difficult when there is more than 2 party involves in a 2 person lifes.

Loves is about accepting. Love is patient. Love is forgiving. Love is keeping promises. Love is never give up no matter what.

If asking for love is so difficult. Than what is love? The what if is never a LOVE.

Why dont we make things happen than kept thinking about what if in future and not accepting the present?